A Small Dog

Am I Doing All I Can for My Dog?

Posted on 15. Nov, 2008 by Jeff K. in The Small Dog-Human Bond

Am I doing enough for my dog? I mean, beyond providing a comfortable place to sleep, a healthy diet, exercise and proper veterinary care, am I really doing all I can do for my dog? Many conscientious dog owners ask these questions. As it turns out, many of us not only do enough for our dogs, we may be worrying for nothing.

Our dog Kelsey can display behaviors one might describe as “anxious.” When anxious, she licks her lips, yawns, or methodically licks her front paws. She seems to need a lot of reassurance from Dawn and me. If I am sitting on the sofa, for example, she will come up and prod me with her paw me until I pet her. The other night, as I was puttering in the kitchen, Kelsey lay nearby watching my every move. She appeared not just calm, but serene—completely relaxed and at ease. This mode of relaxation is not unusual for dogs, and I think it speaks volumes about what our dogs need from us.

Dogs, like people, need to feel secure. Not just physically secure, but emotionally secure as well. By emotionally secure, I am talking about a sense that all is right with the world. In the home, they derive emotional security from us. If we are relaxed, they take that as a sign that all is well. As we go about our daily routine, we unconsciously project a state of calmness. By daily routine, I mean chores you do often and effortlessly. Tasks such as washing dishes or putting water on to boil allow your mind to wander in an almost meditative state. Your dog absorbs this meditative state, and takes comfort in it.

I believe playing with your dog is a wonderful way to bond. Giving treats, in moderation, is a great idea as well. Long walks and fresh air is good for the both of you. When you get right down to it, what does your dog really need from you? Almost always, what your dog really needs is your quiet presence.

Coming up in a future article: Quiet presence at the dinner table: The good, the bad and the ugly of sharing a meal with your dog.

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